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2017年7月28日星期五

2017 Men's Fashion match


Self-cultivation fashion men's jeans, wear T-shirt in a short period of denim clothing, outside the Army green cotton jacket, wear brown casual shoes, very layered winter wear, very warm 2016 men with the trend.

Men's jeans curling, paired with wedding outfits for mother of the bride khaki-coloured shirts and grey suit coats, paired with double brown shoes, retro and trendy business attire, sparked a fashion chord with the 2016-year-old man's trend.

It is suitable for young men's 2016-year trend, fashion break-hole jeans with white printing shirt, a pair of black sports shoes, permeated with the breath of youth.


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2017年7月27日星期四

A Mother Wrote to the World During World War II



Dear World,

My son starts school today. It’s going to be strange and new to him for a while. And I wish you would sort of treat him gently.

You see, up to now, he,s been king of his own room. He,s been boss of the back yard. I have always been around to repair his wounds,and to comfort his feelings.

But now-things are going to be different.

This morning, he is going to walk down the front steps, wave his hand and start on his great adventure that will probably include wars and tragedy and sorrow. To live his life in the world he has to live in will require faith and love and courage.

So, World, I wish you would sort of take him by his young hand and teach him that things he will have to know. Teach him — but gently, if you can. Teach him that for every scoundrel there is a hero; that for every dishonest politician, there is a devoted leader; that for every enemy there is a friend. Teach him the wonders of books. Give him quiet time to think over the mystery of birds in the sky, bees in the sun, and flowers on the green hills. Teach him it is far more honorable to fail than to cheat. Teach him to have faith in his own ideas, even if everyone else tells him they are wrong. Teach him to sell his strength and brains to the highest bidder, but never to put a price on his heart and soul. Teach him to close his ears to a howling crowd... and to stand and fight if he thinks he’s right. Teach him gently, World, but don’t spoil him, because only the test of fire makes fine steel.

This is a big order, World, but see what you can do. He is such a nice little fellow.

2017年7月26日星期三

The Gift of Love



If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient;love is kind;love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way;it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. When I was a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part;then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three;and the greatest of these is love.

2017年7月25日星期二

Love at First Sight



They both thought that a sudden feeling had united them.

This certainty is beautiful, even more beautiful than uncertainty.

They thought they didn't know each other,

nothing had ever happened between them,

These streets, these stairs,this corridors, Where they could have met so long ago?

I would like to ask them, if they can remember-

perhaps in a revolving door face to face one day?

A “sorry” in the crowd?

“Wrong number” on the phone?

—but I know the answer.

No, they don’t remember.

How surprised they would be For such a long time already Fate has been playing with them.

Not quite yet ready to change into destiny,which brings them nearer and yet further, cutting their path and stifling a laugh, escaping ever further;

There were signs, indications, undecipherable, what does in matter.

Three years ago, perhaps or even last Tuesday,

this leaf flying from one shoulder to another?

Something lost and gathered.

Who knows, perhaps a ball already in the bushes, in childhood?

There were handles, door bells,where, on the trace of a hand,another hand was placed;suitcases next to one another in the left luggage.

And maybe one night the same dream forgotten on walking;

But every beginning is only a continuation,and the book of fate is always open in the middle.

2017年7月24日星期一

On Resignation


Resignation is of two sorts, one rooted in despair, the other in unconquerable hope. The man who has suffered such fundamental defeat that he has given up hope of serious achievement may learn the resignation of despair, and if he does, he will abandon all serious activity.

He may, camouflage his despair by religious phrases, or by the doctrine that contemplation is the true end of man, but whatever disguise he may adopt to conceal his inward defeat, he will remain essentially useless and fundamentally unhappy.

The man whose resignation is based on unconquerable hope acts in quite a different way. Hope which is to be unconquerable must be large and impersonal. Whatever my personal activities, may be defeated by death, or by certain kinds of diseases; I may be overcome by my enemies;

I may find that I have embarked upon an unwise course which cannot lead to success. In a thousand ways the failure of purely personal hopes may be unavoidable, but if personal aims have been part of larger hopes for humanity, there is not the same utter defeat when failure comes.

2017年7月23日星期日

Develop Your Own Helping Rituals



If you want your life to stand for peace and kindness, it’s helpful to do kind, peaceful things. One of my favorite ways to do this is by developing my own helping rituals. These little acts of kindness are opportunities to be of service and reminder of how good it feels to be kind and helpful.

We live in a rural area of the San Francisco Bay Area. Most of what we see is beauty and nature. One of the exceptions to the beauty is the litter that some people throw out of their windows as they are driving on the rural roads. One of the few drawbacks to living out the boondocks is that public services, such as litter collection, are less available than they are closer to the city.

A helping ritual that I practice regularly with my two children is picking up litter in our surrounding area. We’ve become so accustomed to doing this that my daughters will often say to me in animated voices, “There’s some litter, Daddy, stop the car! ” And if we have time, we will often pull over and pick it up. It may seem strange, but we actually enjoy it. We pick up litter in parks, on sidewalks, practically anywhere. Once I even saw a complete stranger picking up litter close to where we live. He smiled at me and said, “I saw you doing it, and it seemed like a good idea.”

Picking up litter is only one of endless supplies of possible helping rituals. You might like holding a door open for people, visiting lonely elderly people in nursing homes, or shoveling snow off someone else1 s driveway. Think of something that seems effortless yet helpful. It’s fun, personally rewarding, and sets a good example. Everyone wins.

2017年7月21日星期五

The Road Not Taken

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the underg-rowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same.

And both that morning equally lay, In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day!Yet knowing how way leads on to way,I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence:Two roads diverged in a wood, and I - I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.

2017年7月20日星期四

The Sense of Humor





The story goes that a certain court jester went too far one day and insulted his king. The king became so infuriated he sentenced the jester to be executed. His court prayed upon the king to have mercy for the man who had served him well for so many years. After a time, the king relented only enough to give the jester his choice as to how he would like to die. The jester replied, “If it’s all the same to you, my Lord, I’d like to die of old age.” Certainly in this case, a good sense of humor saved the man's life.

It’s true for us as well. We may not be faced with a situation where our wit will save us from an execution, but our sense of humor and the ability to laugh at things has proven health benefits that extend and improve our quality of life.

Norman Cousins, in his book ,Anatomy of an illness,wrote about how he cured himself of cancer by laughing a good part of each day. He rented films of comedies and watched them for hours on end in his hospital room. He had nothing to lose since he’d been diagnosed as terminal.

His “experiment” turned out to be a classic example of the healing powers of laughter. If it worked for Cousins with a life-threatening illness, it can work for us to enhance and protect our health. We should laugh often and heartily.It's good for our body.

2017年7月19日星期三

Tactics for Job-hunt Success



If you're finding it tough to land a job, try expanding your job hunting plan to include the following tactics:

Set your target. While you should always keep your options open to compromise, you should also be sure to target exactly what you want in a job. A specific job hunt will be more efficient than a haphazard one.

Schedule ample interviews. Use every possible method to get interviews - answering ads, using search firms, contacting companies directly, surfing the Web, and networking. Even if a job is not perfect for you, every interview can be approached as a positive experience.

Follow up! Even if someone does not hire you, write them a thank you note for the interview. Then, some weeks later, send another brief letter to explain that you still have not found the perfect position and that you will be available to interview again if the original position you applied for - or any other position, for that matter - is open. Do this with every position you interview for, and you may just catch a break!

Make it your full time job. You can't find a job by looking sporadically. You have to make time for it. If you're unemployed and looking, devote as much time as you would to a full time job. If you have a job while you're looking, figure out an organized schedule to maximize your searching time.

Network vertically. In the research phase of your job hunt, talk to people who are on a level above you in your desired industry. They'll have some insights that people at your own level won't have, and will be in a good position to hire you or recommend you to be hired.

Keep your spirits up. Looking for a job is one of the toughest things you will ever have to do. Maintain your confidence, be persistently, and think positively, and eventually you will get a job that suits you.

2017年7月18日星期二

The Urgency


June 24

If a man is ever going to admit that he belongs to the earth, not the other way round,it probably will be in late June. Then it is that life surpasses man's affairs with incredible urgency and outreaches him in every direction. Even the farmer, on whom we all depend for the substance of existence, knows then that the best he can do is cooperate with wind and weather, soil and seed. The incalculable energy of chlorophyll, the green leaf itself, dominates the earth, and the root in the soil is the inescapable fact. Even the roadside weed ignores man's legislation.

The urgency is everywhere. Grass blankets the earth, reaching for the sun, spreads its roots, flowers and comes to seed. The forest widens its canopy, strengthens its boles, nurtures its seedlings, ripens its perpetuating nuts. The birds nest and hatch their fledglings. The beetle and the bee are busy at the grassroot and the blossom, and the butterfly lays eggs that will hatch and crawl and eat and pupate and take to the air once more. Fish spawn and meadow voles harvest the wild meadows, and owls and foxes feed their young. Dragonflies and swallows and nighthawks seine the air where the minute winged creatures flit out their minute life spans.

And man, who glibly calls the earth his own, neither powers the leaf nor energizes the fragile wing. Man participates, but his dominance is limited. It is the urgency of life, or growth, that rules. Late June and early Summer are the ultimate, unarguable proof.

2017年7月17日星期一

Add luster to your personality


In the eternal universe, every human being has a one-off chance to live --his existence is unique and irretrievable, for the mold with which he was made, as Rousseau said, was broken by God immediately afterwards.

Fame, wealth and knowledge are merely worldly possessions that are within the reach of anybody striving for them. But your experience of and feelings about life are your own and not to be shared. No one can live your life over again after your death. A full awareness of this will point out to you that the most important thing in your existence is your distinctive individuality or something special of yours. What really counts is not your worldly success but your peculiar insight into the meaning of life and your commitment to it, which add luster to your personality.

It is not easy to be what one really is. There is many a person in the world who can be identified as anything either his job, his status or his social role that shows no trace about his individuality. It does do him justice to say that he has no identity of his own, if he doesn't know his own mind and all his things are either arranged by others or done on others' sugg estions; if his life, always occupied by external things, is completely void of an inner world. You won't be able to find anything whatever, from head to heart, that truly belongs to him. He is, indeed, no more than a shadow cast by somebody else or a machine capable of doing business.

2017年7月7日星期五

Love and Like



In front of the person you love, your heart beats faster, but in front of the person you like, you get happy.

In front of the person you love, winter seems like spring, but in front of the person you like, winter is just beautiful winter.

If you look into the eyes of the one you love, you blush, but if you look into the eyes of the person you like, you smile.

In front of the person you love, you can't say everything on your mind, but in front of the person you like, you can.

In front of the person you love, you tend to get shy, but in front of the person you like, you can show your own self.

You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love, but you can always smile into the eyes of the one you like.

When the one you love is crying, you cry with him, but when the one you like is crying, you end up comforting.

The feeling of love starts from the eye, and the feeling of like starts from the ears.

So if you stop liking a person you used to like, all you need to do is cover your ears. But if you try to close your eyes, love turns into a teardrop and remains in your heart forever after.

2017年7月6日星期四

Paid in full with a glass of milk

One day, a poor boy who was trying to pay his way through school by selling goods from door to door found that he had only one dime left. He was hungry so he decided to beg for a meal at the next house.

However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so she brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?"

You don't owe me anything, she replied. "Mother has taught me never to accept pay for a kindness." He said, "Then I thank you from the bottom of my heart." As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but it also increased his faith in God and the human race. He was about to give up and quit before this point.

Years later the young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where specialists can be called in to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly, now famous was called in for the consultation- When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately, he rose and went down through the hospital hall into her room.

Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room and determined to do his best to save her life. From that day on, he gave special attention to her case.

After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it and then wrote something on the side. The bill was sent to her room. She was afraid to open it because she was positive that it would take the rest of her life to pay it off. Finally she looked, and the note on the side of the bill caught her attention. She read these words...

"Paid in full with a glass of milk."

(Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly


Tears of joy flooded her eyes as she prayed silently:"Thank you, God. Your love has spread through human hearts and hands."

2017年7月1日星期六

Be grateful to life


Once President Roosevelt’s house was broken into and lots of things were stolen. Hearing this, one of Roosevelt’s friends wrote to him and advised him not to take it to his heart so much.

President Roosevelt wrote back immediately, saying,”Dear friend, thank you for your letter to comfort me.  I’m all right now.  I think I should thank God.  This is because of the following three reasons: firstly, the thief only stole things from me but did not hurt me at all; secondly, the thief has stolen some of my things instead of all my things; thirdly, most luckily for me, it was the man rather than me who became a thief…”

It was quite unlucky for anyone to be stolen from..  However, President Roosevelt had such three reasons to be so grateful.  This story tells us how we can learn to be grateful in our life.

Being grateful is an important philosophy of life and a GREat wisdom. .  It is impossible for anyone to be lucky and successful all the time so long as he lives in the world. smile and so will it when you cry to it. ” If you are grateful to life, it will bring you shining sunlight.  

We should learn how to face failure or misfortune bravely and generously and to try to deal with it.  If so, should we complain about our life and become frustrated and disappointed ever since then or should we be grateful for our life, rise again ourselves after a fall? William Thackeray, a famous British writer, said, “Life is a mirror.  When you smile in front of it , it will also

If you always complain about everything, you may own nothing in the end.  When we are successful, we can surely have many reasons for being grateful, but we have only one excuse to show ungratefulness if we fail.

I think we should even be grateful to life whenever we are unsuccessful or unlucky.  Only by doing this can we find our weakness and shortcomings when we fail.  We can also get relief and warmth when we are unlucky.  This can help us find our courage to overcome the difficulties we may face, and receive great impetus to move on.  We should treat our frustration and misfortune in our life in the other way just as President Roosevelt did.  We should be grateful all the time and keep having a healthy attitude to our life forever, keep having perfect characters and enterprising spirit.  Being grateful is not only a kind of comfort, not an escape from life and nor thinking of winning in spirit like Ah Q.  Being grateful is a way to sing for our life which comes just from our love and hope. 

When we put a small piece of alum into muddy water, we can see the alum can soon make the water clear.  If each of us has an attitude of being grateful, we’ll be able to get rid of impulse, upset, dissatisfaction and misfortune.  Being grateful can bring us a better and more beautiful life.